Ultimately Selfish Nature

From deeper thoughts, it always ends up being about ourselves.

When we help others, we feel good about ourselves.
When we ignore others, we feel we are selfish since selfishness is bad and we don't want to be associated with bad things, we decide to help instead.

Both characters are selfish

Life happens to revolve around each other but whatever decision we make will always be about ourselves, whether we decide to do good or bad. Life is about continuously running (from what is bad) and chasing (after what is good). That's why where there's good, there's bad. Where there's pleasure, there's pain.

Everyone continues to talk about what is right and what is wrong but little do they realize or admit that what they mean by right is whatever that is self-beneficial and whatever they mean by wrong is whatever that is self-detrimental.

Just like saying "Please do right". What this actually means at deeper level of consciousness is "I don't care whether you're wrong, just do whatever that is right to me." That is when you see people arguing about justice and fairness for themselves but they will turn a blind eye when injustice happens to others unrelated to them.

Justice and fairness are expected and demanded by everyone. Nevertheless, justice and fairness have always remain very much one-sided. This leads to the question does true love exist?

Aborting a Made Choice

Where does life begin? To me life begins when the heart starts beating which is between five and seven weeks of pregnancy and can be detected by an ultrasound. Life has a choice on whether or not it wants to live or die. Life will always choose to live as it has not experienced life and how are we to decide whether or not it wants to live. Also, once two people decide to have sex they are taking the risk of conceiving a child even if you used birth control, using condom or pulling out.

The only two reasons abortion should be allowed is if  the person is raped or the life of mother is at stake. This is allowed because the mother was forced and did not make the choice and you can't exchange one life for another. In addition, incest abortion should not be allowed as they chose to have sex and can keep aborting life if abortion was legal.

My thoughts are not based on religion as I am not religious .

What is the Purpose of Life?

Different people believe they have different purposes in life. I believe it is the pursuit of happiness as stated in the Declaration of Independence and my other purpose is make this world a better place so that other people don't have to go through suffering like I did and many others. One must use an insurmountable amount of introspection to answer this question.

People Don't Change

The core of you never changes. You may change your actions, opinions and beliefs but the core of you will remain the same. That inner fire that made you, you is still the same. You were born with it and those experiences that happened at your very early impressionable ages, revealed how your core deals with life are still in play. There perhaps is temporary change though. It is like a person quitting cigarettes for one month or ten months but that person on the 11th month comes back to smoke again for the rest of his life. In the end "You are who you are".